Sometimes there are certain people that you can't stop thinking about. Whether it be a loved one, a friend, that new girl you just met. Well whoever it is, once you think about them in a sense your mind will never forget them. You may forget their name, or some of their characteristics, but once you see them again, it is almost like you never stopped talking in the first place. Sometimes that concept can be a little hard to grasp for some people because they want to forget about people in their past, or present. You can't just forget about the people that once made you happy, or sad.
You can't forget about the people that made you happy because if it wasn't for them, you may not have been happy at those times. If they were never there you could have just as easily been depressed. Remembering someone should be about the happy times in your life. Like when you remember an ex your thoughts shouldn't be negative. Instead they should be about those special moments that you shared with them. It is okay to miss people.
In the same regard you cannot forget about the people that made you sad or hurt you. These people made you stronger in a way. Now I am not saying you should go thank them, but they did make you stronger. Some people could be like "Well how is that possible?". If you work through something you get stronger through the process. This is because you remember what it was like to fight through it.
Don't ever forget the people that changed your life. Everyone was brought into your life and no matter what happens, just remember, someone you know loves you and wants to make you happy more than anything in the world. Sometimes we find out who that person is, and sometimes we don't.
ELE :)
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